Have you heard this before?
Your horse is too much for you!
You are not experienced enough for a horse like that.
You should sell that horse!
You are too soft with your horse. You need to show them who's the boss!
What if I said... it'sĀ not true!
YOU ARE ENOUGH FOR YOUR HORSE
YOU ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE RIGHT NOW
It can be hard for you to believe in yourself, especially if people around you are telling you otherwise. They want you to be just like them. They believe they have all the answers. This can lead you to feeling like you have nothing to offer or are unworthy.
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I'm here to help you realize that you are enough. You are unique. Your horse is unique and this means that your relationship is unique. It's no different to our relationships with humans. My relationship with my husband is our own unique relationship. One of the most important parts in our relationship is that we embrace who each other is. We don't set out to change each other to meet our own needs. It's no different to your relationship with your horse.
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And when we truly accept each other... that's when the magic begins!
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Do you feel like you are enough?
I want you to see all the amazing things you possess
and all the beautiful things you could offer your horse.
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HereĀ is the first of 3 simple steps that you can do to start believing in yourself...
Ā Step 1
1. Remember why you have your horse
You can take stock of why you have your horse because I bet it is not to meet other peoples expectations of how your relationship should look. It may be difficult to believe in yourself if you are always trying to please others. Ask yourself, what do you love about your horse and your relationship?
